Chastity contract

The journey to becoming the perfect chastity slave is an exciting one! Many people who enjoy the control of wearing a chastity belt also enjoy having a clear set of rules and expectations to abide by. For this reason, many keyholders choose to implement a chastity contract.

While it’s easy to get caught up in the excitement of permanent chastity from the get-go, I'm here to advise you to take some time to consider the below suggestions and recommendations to help you get the most out of your new chastity venture.

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What is a chastity contract?

A chastity contract is a signed agreement between two (or more) people regarding the usage of a chastity device. The contract requires the user / submissive to hand over control of their genitals to the keyholder / dominant for a specified time period. Both parties agree upon a set of rules and expectations to adhere to during this time, along with penalties / punishments for any transgressions.

A chastity contract is not a legally binding document, though is often treated as such, and can be adapted to suit individual needs prior to signing.

Having a written contract is a symbol of dedication to the act of chastity from both parties and also functions as a reminder of the agreed rules.
Terminology

Chastity device: a cage, usually made of metal, plastic or silicone, used to restrict access to the wearer’s genitals to prevent sexual arousal, satisfaction or release. Most chastity devices (also referred to as belts or cages) are a type of harness worn around the testicles and penis, though such devices also exist for vulva owners.
Keyholder: a gender neutral term for the person who will be in charge of the relationship, often also referred to as the Mistress / Master or Dominant.
User: the person who will wear a chastity device, often synonymous with slave or submissive depending on the specific D/s dynamic.
BDSM: an acronym used to reference a variety of acts and roles which overlap to include: bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism.